Ngathatheka kakhulu ngento eyashiwo yilomuntu kimi , u-Des Ong, .Wathi, “Ngikhathele abantu abathi i-‘emotional intelligence’ iyi-soft skill. Lutho akunjalo ! I-Emotional intelligence ingamandla akho amakhulu avela phezulu !” Zasha !

Phela kubuke ukuthi asifani sonke ngokwemizwa yenhliziyo yethu nangokucabanga . Kimi nakuba kubukeka  imizwa yami ngiyilawula kahle kodwa hhayi ngokwezinga eliphelele. 

Kubukeka sengathi abanye abantu abakaze bangehlulele ngendlela mina engizihlulela ngayo ngokuqinile . Kodwa sonke sinezinkambiso ezibuye zihluleke  – sonke ngamunye .Futhi  kulula ukukujwayela lokho ,ukuncokola ngakho nokuzixolela ngakho. 

Ngithi angivuleleke kuwe la . Ngiye ngizame ndlelazonke ukuyilawula ngendlela efanele imizwa yami ingadlubulundeli ekuzithethiseni  ngizilahle ngecala kweqe,ukuze ngikwazi ukuba secebweni likaNkulunkulu sikhathi sinye . Kuwe kunjani ? Akucabange lokhu:

KwabaseKolose  3:12,13  Ngakho-ke

njengabakhethiweyo bakaNkulunkulu, abangcwele nabathandekayo, yembathani ububele benhliziyo, nesisa, nokuzithoba, nobumnene, nokubheka kade,  nibekezelelane, nithethelelane, uma umuntu enensolo komunye; njengokuba neNkosi yanithethelela, yenzani njalo nani.

Bese kuyisikhathi sokuba sokukwazi ukumukela ukuthi siyahluleka kwesinye isikhathi  – ekugcineni kwakho konke sithandiwe nguNkulunkulu ,siyisizwe saKhe esikhethekile . Futhi uma usuke ufunda leyondima ezibhalweni isuke ikhuluma ngani ingempela ? Emotional intelligence. Ukuvesa umusa .Sibe nezibele ,sithobeke ,sibe mnene,sibekezelelane .Singadinwa kodwa sithethelelane  .

Lobuhlakani bokulawula imizwa yenhliziyo yakho ukhula kanjani kubo ,ububambe kahle ?Kuqala la.Khona kanye la eZwini likaNkulunkulu .Futhi kuyeke manje ukubamba uyeka uzisho wena ukuthi phela unje kothiwani . 

Yilo kanye iZwi likaNkulunkulu leli … Eliza kuwe li-Fresh namhlanje.